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You’re Single Until You’re Married/You’re Married Until You’re Divorced


Have you ever met someone, hit it off, had an AWESOME CONNECTION, then found out they aren’t quite single? What if you met someone you really like a lot but you’re not quite if you’re headed toward exclusivity? I address those issues in this post. I also give my thoughts on dating people aren’t divorced but aren’t married either (separated and don’t APPEAR to be reconciling anytime soon). Enjoy…

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Abstinence Is/Isn’t…..


This post has been a long time coming (Life…). But here are some thoughts I have about abstinence and clearing up what it is/isn’t. I’m gonna post more on the subject as I’m moved to.

Abstinence is…

Abstinence isn’t….

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Are You Suuuure You Wanna Get Maaaarried???


Many single people (especially women) have been asked this question. In this series of recordings, I discuss many topics that singles contemplating/meditating/brain farting/ etc. about marriage should think about. Or at least what I think about. 

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

Part 5

Part 6

Part 7

Part 8

Part 9

Part 10

Part 11

Part 12

Part 13

Part 14

Part 15

Part 16

These posts aren’t number exactly right so please forgive any errors in order or labeling.

Posted in Cranky, Cranky, My Journal, Sexual Purity, Spiritual Healing

Hoe-ifying Pt. 2



This is part 2 of a topic I’ve posted about before. Hoe-ifying is a form of slut-shaming that assigns hoe-like characteristics to women for um….let me see, breathing basically. In Pt.2, I’m giving my thoughts on women being being “hoe-ified” for dating outside their ethnicity. I hope you this posting, but I also hope it challenges you to think about how mindsets like this violate your personal freedom as a woman.

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A Good Product Sells Itself 


Have you ever had men say “This is why you don’t have a man” or “I seen you’re SINGLE ” then this recording is for you. I’m sharing some thoughts about people (but especially men) who shame women for being single.¬†

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Are You Being Hoe-ified??


Have you ever been “hoe-ified”? Being “hoe-ified”is when someone attributes hoeishness to you based on activities that have nothing to do with your sexual activity. In this recording, I share a few thoughts about this attitude and it damages women’s sense of personal freedom.

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Morphing….


Have you ever met someone who seemed to be the man/woman of your dreams. Same values, tastes, interests, etc. Then you get really into the relationship and they turn into someone else? I call this little phenomena MORPHING. Here’s a secret about “Morphers”, they haven’t changed into anyone else. Their real self is just emerging. And you’re finally seeing their horns