Posted in Body Image/Sexuality, My Journal, Sexual Purity, SPOTLIGHT ON BEAUTY!!!! HIGH POST HAIR ON LOW POST TIME!!!!!!!!!

Hoe-ified Pt. 3


Eric Campbell

Jessica Simpson

Teacher Bae

The Princess (My Daughter)

I posted the above pictures in this installment of “Hoe-ified” to illustrate a point about women being slut-shamed over something they can’t do anything about. THEIR ANATOMY OR BODY TYPE.

This type of hoe-ifying goes way deeper than the type of clothing a women wears. It’s really about how certain body types are associated with SEX. More importantly, how MEN respond to women’s dimensions or body type.

Click here to listen. As always, I welcome your opinions on this topic.

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Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), Sexual Purity, Spiritual Healing

Top Reasons Why Women Say a Man’s “Too Nice”: How to Overcome “The Nice Guy”Trap 


Do nice guys really finish last??


Or is that a line that men to “guilt” women into “sympathy sex”?


In this post I list some reasons women give for why they might consider a guy “too nice”. 


I also talk how to overcome the “nice guy” trap/curse and learn how to be more assertive in your approach to women and, really, life.


Hopefully, this recording will put you on the right path toward getting the woman (love) you want. 


Listen and enjoy (click here to listen)

Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), Sexual Purity

How to Avoid Buying “Shoddy Goods”


Shoddy = Badly made or done. Of inferior quality. 

For the purposes of this post goods=relationships NOT PEOPLE. There’s no such thing as shoddy people, only relationships or situations (and they can be salvaged). 

In this post, I talk about dodging relationship bullets that have the potential to take you into unnecessary drama and messiness. 

NOW this isn’t to be confused with relationship situations that aren’t perfect but still may lead to happy relationships. Listen and enjoy……(click here to listen)

Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), My Journal, Sexual Purity

Why Do YOU Think You’re Still Single (asked in a snooty nasty tone)??


In this post, I share some insights about singleness vs marriage and how many times we miss it when we act like marriage is the ideal and that singleness is a curse for not getting relationships right. I hope you enjoy it (click here to listen)

Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), My Journal, Sexual Purity

You’re Single Until You’re Married/You’re Married Until You’re Divorced


Have you ever met someone, hit it off, had an AWESOME CONNECTION, then found out they aren’t quite single? What if you met someone you really like a lot but you’re not quite if you’re headed toward exclusivity? I address those issues in this post. I also give my thoughts on dating people aren’t divorced but aren’t married either (separated and don’t APPEAR to be reconciling anytime soon). Enjoy…

Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), My Journal, Sexual Purity

Abstinence Is/Isn’t…..


This post has been a long time coming (Life…). But here are some thoughts I have about abstinence and clearing up what it is/isn’t. I’m gonna post more on the subject as I’m moved to.

Abstinence is…

Abstinence isn’t….

Posted in Boaz/Xeres/Morris/Joseph/Mr. Right and Esther/Ruth/Halle/Mrs. Right, I found him/her (share, share), Sexual Purity

Are You Suuuure You Wanna Get Maaaarried???


Many single people (especially women) have been asked this question. In this series of recordings, I discuss many topics that singles contemplating/meditating/brain farting/ etc. about marriage should think about. Or at least what I think about. 

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

Part 5

Part 6

Part 7

Part 8

Part 9

Part 10

Part 11

Part 12

Part 13

Part 14

Part 15

Part 16

These posts aren’t number exactly right so please forgive any errors in order or labeling.

Posted in Cranky, Cranky, My Journal, Sexual Purity, Spiritual Healing

Hoe-ifying Pt. 2



This is part 2 of a topic I’ve posted about before. Hoe-ifying is a form of slut-shaming that assigns hoe-like characteristics to women for um….let me see, breathing basically. In Pt.2, I’m giving my thoughts on women being being “hoe-ified” for dating outside their ethnicity. I hope you this posting, but I also hope it challenges you to think about how mindsets like this violate your personal freedom as a woman.